Embrace the Unknown: A Paralympian’s Guide to Growth

Q: What Can Paralympic Athletes Teach Us About Navigating Life's Challenges?

Recently, I landed in Chicago to give a keynote speech. After a long travel day, I arrived late to my hotel and checked in at the front desk. The staff member handed me my key and offered assistance to the elevator. I accepted. Then I asked one simple, yet crucial question:

“What’s my room number?”

Had I not asked, I may have wandered the halls all night. 😄

I could’ve asked him to escort me to my room, but noticing he was the only one working, I decided to take the opportunity to challenge myself. I was about to become an explorer in unfamiliar territory.

Q: How Can Exploration Build Confidence?

When I stepped off the elevator, I began scanning the walls for a braille room plate. At first, nothing. Then the carpet texture shifted beneath my feet. My anxiety spiked. Where am I headed? The faint hum of an air conditioner made me feel like I was walking into a horror film.

I quickly turned around and retraced my steps. Eventually, I found another hallway. After some careful wall-scaling, I finally discovered a braille plate, an odd number. My room was even. I crossed the hall, kept searching, and finally, boom! I found my room, completely on my own.

Yes, it would have been easy to ask for help. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with doing so. But sometimes, we shortchange ourselves by not taking the opportunity to discover what we’re capable of independently.

Exploration stretches us. It strengthens confidence. It teaches resilience. And yes, it can feel awkward or uncomfortable at times, but that’s where growth happens.

For more on how I travel, check out Independence Takes Flight: What Blind Travelers Wish You Knew - Part 1

Q: Are Inconveniences Really Obstacles, or Opportunities?

Let’s be honest, nobody enjoys being inconvenienced. You miss a flight. A meeting runs over. Plans change unexpectedly. Our natural reaction is frustration, irritation, and often, the search for a shortcut.

But here’s a question I’ve learned to ask—one I encourage you to adopt:

Is this truly an inconvenience… or is it an opportunity for growth?

As a Paralympian, my career has been filled with unexpected shifts. Training sessions that didn’t go as planned. Delayed flights. Physical discomfort. Weather interruptions during competitions. And yet, these “disruptions” have consistently become catalysts for new lessons.

Rather than resist, I’ve learned to ask:

• What is this moment teaching me?
• What strength is being developed?
• How can this discomfort prepare me for what’s next?
  

Q: How Can Leaders Apply This Mindset?

As a motivational speaker and keynote speaker, I often tell my audiences that true leadership isn’t about avoiding obstacles, it’s about navigating them with curiosity and courage. Leaders are made in these moments of uncertainty.

The next time inconvenience shows up, don’t just label it as bad luck. Consider that it may be an unexpected invitation to:

• Make Resilience Your Company’s Strategic Advantage
• Strengthen problem-solving skills
• Lead with confidence during uncertainty

When you lean into discomfort, you might just surprise yourself with what you're capable of accomplishing.

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